Guys Are Like Superheros...

My newest theory on men:

They are like superheros,they can crush all your dreams in one solid leap and bound! Let me explain...

I've been dating recently and what I've learned is not to get your hopes up about shit... it's best to go into it thinking it's going to be hell and then being pleasantly surprised by the nice guys.
I had a crush on this guy, we had talked every now and then, but usually through text, and one night he asked if i was free for Thursday of that week and set up a date. We had planned to make dinner together and kick back with some movies. He even reassured me the night prior that we were still on... only to call me the next day... saying he had "personal shit" to take care of... then proceeded not to talk to me for over 2 weeks.. then when he did talk to me he was a jerk, mind you he had asked me out! Then there is guy #2, he's the one that we had an awesome date, but then freaked out, he said he didn't want to keep seeing me b/c he liked me too much... What the fuck??? Guy #3, he's just crazy... this guy is the one that I met when I was having drinks with a friend, was very sweet, we went on a few dates, then he became very weird... everything had to be planned perfectly. Now, he's calling me every freakin minute talking about how he supposedly missed me (WE ONLY HAD 3 DATES!) and how much he wanted to see me again... PSYCHO, can we say Fatal Attraction

The moral of the story...don't invest hoping and dreaming into a man... b/c as i said.. they're like superheros and will crush them with one leap and bound.. as soon as you think one is a good one, inevitably they will fuck that perception up... it's just gonna happen... the trick is discovering their kryptonyt.

On Another Note...
What is it with guys that you USED to date thinkin they can still get the ass? Just because you had it once before, doesn't mean we're going to circum to your new found charm. I dated this guy for 4 years on and off... and we've been broken up for over 3 years now. However, we talk now and then, and for some reason, he thinks he can say things he used to say and its gonna make everything ok, turn me on, and make me want him...what is that?
News flash ass hole, when you cheat and impregnate a woman multiple times, it kinda puts you out of my dating pool of quality men. I'm not interested in your banter about what you remember us doing, nor am I the least bit entertained by you telling me that you want me so much and you miss me and love me... BULL SHIT! haha!

Just sharing my latest thoughts on the opposite sex.. chime in if you wish:)